Unforgivable Sins

I feel like I am a pretty easy going person in general. There's not a lot that gets me rattled or gets me upset or hurt or whatever. I am also incredibly forgiving. I would forgive an ax murderer for maiming me, killing me, etc. I for serious would. There are only four things that, while I can and will forgive you for, it will cost you my trust for ever. One of them is hurting any member of my family. DO NOT talk trash about my family, hurt them emotionally, physically, etc. I WILL pour sugar down your gas tank. And that's not a lie. Another thing is if you've hurt me more than two or three times. It's one of those, you say that you're sorry but you're not. You continue on the same path that you originated on, no matter what you say. I can take a lot of crap, but even I have my limits. They've only been pushed to the max a couple of times. If you ever happen to push them, don't be surprised that I don't talk to you. Also, I will only confront you once or twice about it. If nothing has changed after those times, it's not going to change and I'm done beating myself up over it. In my book, you're written off.

There are two things, however, that I do have trouble forgiving in anyone: fakeness and talking about someone behind their backs. 

I can not stand fake people. I'm incredibly up front with people. I have a tendency to say whatever is on my mind when it's on my mind. I don't hide my feelings from others because I also have a bad habit of, when I keep things bottled in for too long, exploding. So it bothers me when others can not just say what is on their mind, but have to put up a front instead. If you don't like someone, don't act like you like them.

Secondly, don't talk behind my back. Ever. I will find out, and I will be pissed. This almost goes hand in hand with the fakeness. If you have something to say, say it to my face. I will reciprocate that back to you. If I have a problem with you, I will vent about it first (mainly so that I don't explode at you later), then I will confront you about the problem. That's how I am. I refuse to play around and skirt around issues because that kind of action gets us nowhere.

So there you have it. If you want a surefire way to piss me off, do one of the above mentioned things. I'm a very forgiving person, but don't screw around with me. I will make you miserable or pour sugar into your gas tank.

And, whatever you do... Don't. Lie. To. Me.